out of the blue; out of this love for you

I've told a lot of lies, and to be honest with you, the biggest was when I said I don't want to be with you. I might not have actually said that, but I thought it.
I don't listen to advice. No one does. Everyone will learn from experience.
For examples:
When Paige weighs 300 lbs, she'll be like "I should've listened when they told me to put down that box of cookies."
When Henry's liver fails and he takes too many meds mixed with alcohol and pot and he has to have his stomach pumped and go into rehab, he'll think, "I should have listened when when they said 2 painkillers were enough, and that alcohol ends with nothing good."
When Kendall's jaw falls off, he'll remember what they told him, "SHUT UP!"
When Kate finally realizes that he's the one for her, he'll be dead and gone, and she'll be married to someone boring and lame, she'll know, "Love is what matters, not who the person is when you love them, but that you love them, and that's all."